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If you and your spouse are facing a divorce, you may be looking into alternative methods besides litigation. Especially if you are amicable, alternative methods, like mediation, may make it unnecessary to conduct your divorce proceedings in the presence of a judge. To find out if this is the best route with the most benefits for you and your spouse, continue reading to see how an experienced York County, PA divorce mediation attorney at Ilkhanoff & Silverstein can help determine your options.

How does the divorce mediation process work in the state of Pennsylvania?

Put simply, the divorce mediation process allows you and your spouse to work together to negotiate the terms of your divorce. With this, an unbiased third party will assist you and your spouse in discussing any issues that have yet to be resolved, such as child custody, child support, division of assets, and alimony, and help you reach decisions that work best for your given circumstances. Notably, this third party may or may not be an attorney.

What are the benefits of divorce mediation in the state of Pennsylvania?

If your situation with your spouse allows for it, the divorce mediation process is beneficial because it allows you to come to agreements on your terms. Several other benefits to using this process instead of the litigation process are as follows:

  • Control: if you and your spouse were to undergo trial, a judge would have been given the right to make decisions regarding your marital issues. Rather, mediation gives you and your spouse control over the outcome of your divorce by reaching your agreements.
  • Confidentiality: mediation is a confidential method, as you, your spouse, and the unbiased third party are not allowed to discuss the information that is shared or use it against one another. This promotes an open and honest environment.
  • Efficiency: mediation can be a quicker process than other methods. However, the length of the process ultimately depends on you and your spouse and the number of marital issues you have to cover.
  • Expense: unlike divorcing through litigation that includes attorney expenses and otherwise, mediation is cost-effective.
  • Choice: importantly, mediation is never required. Rather, you and your spouse are given the option to participate in this voluntary process where you reach decisions on your terms.
  • Family: if you and your spouse use mediation, it usually benefits any family involved in the process, especially children. This is because trials can often become hostile, while mediation allows for healthy conversations.

If you require any further guidance as to which route to take, do not hesitate in reaching out to a skilled York County, PA divorce attorney today.


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